Your Boulder Birth Support Resource Guide

A simple collection of tools for pregnancy, birth, and postpartum care

Planning for birth can bring up a mix of excitement, curiosity, and a little uncertainty. Many Boulder families tell me they want to feel informed but not overloaded, supported but not micromanaged. This guide is here to offer clear, digestible information—just enough to help you feel grounded as you move toward your birth day.

Whether you're planning a hospital birth, exploring home birth, or still deciding, here are the basics that matter most.

What a Birth Doula Really Does

A birth doula provides continuous emotional, physical, and informational support. Think of a doula as a steady, calming presence who:

  • Helps you understand your options without overwhelm

  • Offers hands-on comfort tools

  • Guides your partner so they can show up with confidence

  • Encourages rest, nourishment, and emotional grounding

  • Holds space for your unique values, identity, and story

  • Brings evidence-based info and a whole lot of heart

In Boulder’s wellness-centered community, doula care often blends mindfulness, trauma-informed support, and holistic tools like herbs and flower essences (always used gently and optionally).

Comfort Measures That Truly Help (and When to Use Them)

Here are the most effective comfort tools that are easy to learn and adaptable to most birth settings.

Physical Techniques

  • Counterpressure on the low back or hips — ideal during active labor

  • Hip squeezes — great for back labor or when baby is rotating

  • Rebozo sifting or belly support — helps ease intensity and release tension

  • Warm compresses on the lower back or abdomen

  • Cold cloths on the neck or forehead

  • Water therapy — tub or shower for deep relaxation

  • Slow dancing / upright positioning — uses gravity + connection

  • Hands-and-knees or knee-chest positions — helpful for back discomfort or repositioning baby

  • Birth ball exercises — circles, rocking, or forward leaning

  • Work with gravity— Some folks like to stand, squat or lean on a bar or rope for support

Breath + Nervous System Support

  • Long exhales to soften the jaw and pelvic floor

  • Box breathing for early labor jitters

  • Horse-lips exhale to prevent tension during intensity

  • Grounding touch on your shoulders or low back

  • Simple mantras like “soften,” “open,” or “one wave at a time”

Partner Tools

Partners often love having a clear “toolkit”:

  • Eye contact + quiet verbal encouragement

  • Hand-holding with rhythmic squeezing

  • Supporting from behind in a slow dance position

  • Keeping hydration + nourishment flowing

  • Tracking contraction patterns so you don’t have to

Herbal + Flower Essence Support (Optional + Very Gentle)

Not everyone wants herbs or essences during labor—and that’s okay. For Boulder families who appreciate plants, here are a few simple, safe, and commonly used supports.

Herbs

All used gently and only if they feel aligned:

  • Red Raspberry Leaf Tea
    Can support uterine tone during pregnancy; often used in the third trimester.

  • Chamomile or Lemon Balm Tea
    Calming for the nervous system during early labor or between waves.

  • Ginger Tea or Chews
    Helpful for nausea.

  • Peppermint
    For energy or digestive support; not used near baby immediately postpartum if establishing lactation.

(Strong herbs or tinctures are not used in labor unless guided by your midwife or care provider.)

Flower Essences

These work on the emotional level and are gentle enough for almost everyone:

  • Rescue Remedy
    Encourages calm and clarity; helpful for you or your partner.

  • Walnut Essence
    Beautiful for transitions (early labor → active labor, or shifting to the birth location).

  • Star of Bethlehem
    Supportive for grounding the nervous system if emotions rise.

They’re not medicinal and won’t interfere with medical care—they simply offer emotional ease.

What’s Actually Worth Preparing For

You don’t need a mountain of information; just these essentials:

1. Labor Basics

A simple overview of stages and when to call your support team.

2. A Few Comfort Tools You Love

You don’t need 30 techniques—just 3–5 that feel intuitive.

3. Your Birth Preferences

A short, clear list of what matters most: pain relief options, communication style, newborn care preferences, and your ideal environment (lighting, movement, music, touch, etc.).

4. Your Postpartum Plan

Birth is one day—postpartum is the season that shapes your healing.
Plan for:

  • Meals

  • Sleep support

  • Lactation help

  • Emotional support

  • Herbs or teas for recovery

  • Gentle care from your community

Why Boulder Families Choose Doula Support

Families in Boulder often value:

  • Holistic support

  • Nervous system care

  • Nature-based or herbal wisdom

  • Trauma-informed practices

  • Evidence-based guidance

  • Nonjudgmental presence

  • Support that honors identity, autonomy, and family structure

Doula care creates a steady thread of connection throughout your whole perinatal season.

If You’re Exploring Doula Support in Boulder

I offer mindful, intuitive, evidence-based doula care rooted in:

  • Nervous-system support

  • Hands-on comfort techniques

  • Herbal and flower essence knowledge

  • Partner guidance

  • Trauma-informed presence

  • Respect for every feeding journey

  • Deep care for your body, soul, and story

If you'd like to connect or schedule a free consultation, I'd be honored to support your growing family.

Whether you're preparing for birth for the first time or expanding your family here in Boulder, finding clear, grounded information can make this season feel more supportive and spacious. This guide brings together some helpful local resources, comfort techniques, herbal ideas, and simple templates for planning your birth.

Everything here is created with Boulder families in mind—holistic, evidence-based, mindful, and chill.

Disclaimer:

These resources are offered as a starting point for your own research and exploration. Inclusion in this guide does not mean that I endorse or agree with every aspect of a provider’s practice, philosophy, or services. Every family’s needs and values are unique, and I encourage you to connect directly with any provider you’re considering, ask questions, and make the choices that feel right for you and your birth.

Local Boulder Birth & Postpartum Resources

Natural + Low-Intervention Birth Options Near Boulder & Longmont

Community Roots Midwife Collective — Longmont / Boulder Front Range

Website: https://healthhives.com/clinic/community-roots-midwife-collective
Community Roots offers full-spectrum homebirth midwifery care, including personalized prenatal visits, on-call midwives from 37–42 weeks, in-home labor support, newborn exams and screenings, and holistic postpartum follow-up. Their care style centers continuity, consent, and ancestral-inspired postpartum nourishment.

Boulder Birth & Holistic Health — North Boulder (Birth Center)

Website: https://boulderbirthandhealth.com
A freestanding, out-of-hospital birth center providing midwife-led prenatal, birth, and postpartum care. Families receive extended prenatal visits, holistic support options (lactation care, mental wellness offerings, integrative therapies), and early newborn care including screenings and lactation help. A calm, home-like setting designed for physiologic birth.

CU Center for Midwifery – Longmont (at Longmont United Hospital)

Website: https://nursing.cuanschutz.edu/healthcare/services/midwifery
A hospital-based, midwife-led model offering water-birth options, labor support, delivery, and comprehensive postpartum services. Ideal for families wanting a natural, low-intervention approach with the full resources of a hospital available if needed.

Foothills Community Midwives / Boulder Community Health – Family Birth Center (Boulder)

Website: https://www.bch.org/our-services/maternity-care
Provides midwife-supported hospital births in a gentle, evidence-based environment. Families have access to hydrotherapy tubs, spacious birthing suites, aromatherapy, integrative therapies (including optional self-pay acupuncture), and strong support for natural birth preferences when medically appropriate.

Boulder Community Health – Family Birth Center (Boulder)

Website: https://www.bch.org/our-services/maternity-care
A supportive, baby-friendly hospital setting offering midwifery care, hydrotherapy tubs, low-intervention options, and a calm, family-centered approach to labor and birth.

Avista Adventist Hospital — Louisville

Website: https://avistahospital.org (or through Centura / AdventHealth)
Popular among Boulder-area families for attentive nursing, large private birth suites, labor tubs, and a supportive environment for unmedicated or low-intervention birth.

Boulder Nurse-Midwives — Boulder

Website: https://bouldernursemidwives.com
A midwife-led practice providing prenatal care, labor support, attended births, and postpartum care within a hospital-based framework. Known for warm care, informed consent, and support for physiologic labor.

Homebirth Midwives Serving Boulder (Independent Practices)

Website: Varies by provider; many families start by searching “Boulder homebirth midwife” or reviewing the Colorado Midwives Association directory: https://coloradomidwives.org/find-a-midwife
Licensed homebirth midwives offering relationship-based prenatal care, continuous support during labor and birth in your home, and extended postpartum care. A strong option for families seeking a deeply personal and uninterrupted birth environment.


Lactation Resources

Boulder County Lactation Services (IBCLC Team)

County-based lactation support offering evidence-based guidance for latch challenges, pumping plans, weight concerns, supplementation, and feeding transitions. A great option for families seeking accessible, community-centered support.

The Mama’hood – Boulder

Website: https://themamahood.com
Offers breastfeeding/chestfeeding groups, newborn classes, and private lactation consults. Their group environment is warm and supportive, helping families build confidence and community.

Private Mobile IBCLCs (In-Home Support)

Skilled lactation consultants who come to your home to help with latch, supply concerns, pain, pumping strategy, and feeding plans tailored to your goals. Ideal for early postpartum when staying home feels best.

Diane Michel, IBCLC

Compassionate, in-home IBCLC support specializing in latch optimization, oral function assessments, and practical feeding plans. Known for her gentle, nonjudgmental style and clear explanations.

Sanctuary Doulas – Lactation Support (Boulder Area)

Some members of the Sanctuary Doulas collective offer lactation guidance, postpartum support, and feeding education. A good fit for families wanting continuity of care from pregnancy through early postpartum.

Jessica Brun, IBCLC

Evidence-based lactation support with a focus on individualized care, body-feeding options, and support for both simple and complex feeding challenges. Offers home visits and personalized feeding plans.


Perinatal Mental Health Support

Postpartum Support International (PSI – Colorado)

Offers free support groups, helplines, and a directory of local mental health providers specializing in pregnancy, birth, and postpartum emotional wellbeing. Excellent for those seeking community-based support or help finding a therapist who understands perinatal experiences.

Boulder Perinatal Therapists

A collective of therapists who specialize in perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, birth processing, identity shifts, and gentle support through postpartum transitions. Many offer both virtual and in-office sessions and have deep experience supporting new and growing families.

Jetha Marek (Perinatal Mental Health Support)

Provides warm, attuned support for pregnancy and postpartum, specializing in body-based mindfulness, emotional resilience, birth processing, and nurturing guidance for new parents navigating identity and relationship shifts.

Lexi Chatara-Middleton (Perinatal + Postpartum Therapy)

Offers compassionate, inclusive therapy focused on postpartum mood challenges, nervous system support, relationship changes, and healing after difficult or unexpected birth experiences. Approachable and highly supportive for first-time and seasoned parents alike.

Sanctuary Doulas – Emotional + Postpartum Support

Some members of Sanctuary Doulas offer extended postpartum emotional support, mental health referrals, nervous system care, and gentle check-ins for families needing additional layers of reassurance and guidance during the fourth trimester.Bodywork for Pregnancy & Postpartum

  • Prenatal massage therapists

  • Webster-certified chiropractors

  • Pelvic floor physical therapists

  • Craniosacral therapists (for parents + newborns)

  • Flower Essence and herbal support


A Calming Prenatal Meditation Playlist

Music and sound can regulate the nervous system beautifully in pregnancy and early labor. Here is a curated list Boulder families love:

  • “Arrival” – Garth Stevenson

  • “Weightless” – Marconi Union

  • “Stillness” – Beautiful Chorus

  • “Ambre” – Nils Frahm

  • “Shores of Avalon” – Lisa Gerrard

  • “Oms” – Nada Moola

  • “Floating” – Kevin Braheny Fortune

  • “Bridges” – Yiruma

  • “Deep Rest Meditation” – Insight Timer

  • “Softening” – Beautiful Chorus

Use these during evening wind-down, prenatal rest, early labor, or anytime your body wants to exhale.


Simple & Supportive Birth Preferences Template

download this template

Use this as a gentle, non-overwhelming guide for communicating your priorities.

Birth Preferences

Name:
Due Date:
Partner/Support Person:
Doula:

Environment

  • Soft lighting

  • Space for quiet + privacy

  • Music or meditation playlist

  • Freedom to move and change positions

  • Minimal vaginal exams when possible

Comfort Measures

  • Hydrotherapy (shower/tub)

  • Massage, hip squeezes, counterpressure

  • Birth ball, rocking, leaning forward

  • Heat/cold packs

  • Breathwork + grounding tools

  • Aromatherapy if permitted

Pain Relief

  • Begin with natural comfort measures

  • Open to nitrous oxide

  • Open to epidural if needed

  • Clear explanations and asking for consent before any interventions

Monitoring & Interventions

  • Prefer intermittent monitoring when appropriate

  • Consent + discussion for all procedures

  • Review options before membrane sweep/AROM/augmentation

Pushing & Birth

  • Positions based on comfort (upright, side-lying, hands-knees)

  • Follow body’s cues

  • Immediate skin-to-skin

  • Delayed cord clamping

Baby Care

  • Golden Hour uninterrupted

  • Feeding support

  • Vitamin K / Eye ointment / Hep B (choose your preferences)

Postpartum

  • Quiet room

  • Support for feeding + emotional grounding

  • Optional flower essences or herbal supports


Flower Essence & Herbal Support Guide

(Gentle + Optional)

These are safe, widely used, and supportive for many Boulder families. Always adjust to your body’s needs and preferences.

Pregnancy + Early Labor

  • Chamomile — soothing for nervous system tension

  • Lemon Balm — calms anxious thoughts

  • Red Raspberry Leaf — supports uterine tone

  • Rescue Remedy (Flower Essence) — grounding for nerves

During Labor

  • Ginger tea/chews — settles nausea

  • Peppermint hydrosol — cooling for face/neck

  • Walnut flower essence — helps with transitions

  • Star of Bethlehem flower essence — emotional centering

Postpartum

  • Nettle + Oatstraw tea — mineral-rich nourishment

  • Sitz bath herbs (calendula, rose, plantain, yarrow) — soothing healing

  • Motherwort tincture (midwife-guided) — grounding, regulates emotions

  • Larch essence — softens tension, heart-opening, confidence boosting


5 Helpful Bach Flower Essences for Postpartum

1. Walnut — For Life Transitions & Identity Shifts

Perfect for the massive transition into new parenthood. Walnut helps protect your energy during times of change and supports you in releasing old patterns so you can settle into your new rhythm with more ease.

2. Star of Bethlehem — For Shock, Birth Processing & Emotional Soothing

Often called the “soothing essence,” this remedy helps integrate the emotional + physical shock of birth, whether the birth was empowering, complicated, surprising, or simply intense. Beautiful for calming the nervous system.

3. Elm — For Overwhelm & Feeling Like It’s “Too Much”

Elm is ideal for capable people who suddenly feel flooded with responsibility (hello, newborn life). It restores confidence and steadiness when you temporarily doubt your ability to cope.

4. Olive — For Deep Fatigue & Exhaustion

If you’re beyond tired — tired in your bones — Olive supports recovery and helps your system replenish. Great for postpartum depletion, long nights, and mental exhaustion.

5. Rescue Remedy — For Acute Stress, Big Feelings & Grounding Moments

A blend of five Bach essences, Rescue Remedy is the go-to for emotional intensity, panic, or in-the-moment overwhelm. Helpful during cluster feeding nights, newborn fussiness, or when everything feels like a lot.


Positioning & Comfort Techniques for Labor

These positions and tools support comfort, progress, and connection.

The main thing is to feel comfy, cozy, safe and loved so you and the baby feel ready for this next step together.

Also, rest and have water and snacks whenever possible. Birth is generally a marathon and not a sprint.

Early Labor

  • Hands-and-knees

  • Birth ball hip circles

  • Side-lying with pillows

  • Slow dancing with partner

  • Gentle walking or lunges

Active Labor

  • Leaning forward over bed/counter

  • Supported squat or kneeling

  • Upright movement + swaying

  • Tub/shower with water over back

  • Asymmetric positions (one leg up)

Back Labor / Baby Rotation

  • Rebozo sifting

  • Hip squeezes

  • Knee-chest position

  • Side-lying with top knee high

  • Belly lift + tuck

Pushing

  • Upright: squatting, kneeling, hands-knees

  • Side-lying for rest + control

  • Semi-recline for partner support

  • Using squat bar or partner’s body for stability

Hands-On Comfort Techniques

These are ideal for partners + doulas to use together.

Physical Touch

  • Low-back counterpressure

  • Double hip squeeze

  • Warm compress on back/belly

  • Cool cloth on forehead or neck

  • Sacral pressure for back labor

Breathwork

  • Long slow exhales

  • Horse-lips exhale to soften pelvic floor

  • Patterned breathing

  • Mantras: “Soft,” “Open,” “One wave at a time”

Nervous System Tools

  • Eye contact

  • Gentle shoulder touch

  • Rhythmic hand squeezing

  • Quiet, supportive presence

  • A candle, candles


You Deserve Support That Feels Grounded + Personal

Whether you’re planning a hospital birth in Boulder, exploring home birth, or simply wanting more ease during pregnancy, these tools are here to support you. I’m always happy to talk more about:

  • Prenatal visits

  • Labor support

  • Postpartum care

  • Gentle herbal options

  • Parent + newborn photography

  • Local resources tailored to your needs

If you’d like personalized guidance or want to explore working together, I’d be honored to support your pregnancy, birth and or postpartum journey.

Looking for more resources or referrals? Check out this list of other perinatal professionals

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